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The Pain Within

  • Michele
  • Jun 19
  • 1 min read

I was in my first abusive relationship for two years before I even realised it was abuse. This set my dating pattern for most of my adult life, where I accepted abuse because I believed it was okay due to me fighting back.


WHAT THEY BUILT AFTER


I began studying and attending therapy. I struggled with therapy and the processing of therapy after I completed it. It was hard to know that I should have had therapy years before bringing up my children, who got the unhealed version of me because I was in survival mode.

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