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My voice will be heard

  • Catherine
  • Jun 25
  • 1 min read

My ex-husband abused me for 6 years, and I only got out after those 6 years. He abused me emotionally, financially, verbally, and physically. The last time he beat me up, he almost unalived me. I was only saved by the grace of God.


I started my healing journey in September 2025. It's not an easy road. It's slow, messy, and real. I can only say that I thank God that I'm still alive and that I can protect my son.


My ex-husband also got me hooked on drugs. I used meth and Mandrax. I am a recovering drug addict, and it's not easy, but I'm taking it day by day, one step at a time.


I'm just glad that I'm alive to tell my story and to help other people in the same situation.


WHAT THEY BUILT AFTER


I'm very proud of myself, and I'm proud of all the lessons that I learned.

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